Love and Appreciation...

I need to break the negative monotony, and express my POSITIVE feelings about men. All the negatives are bringing me down a little, and even though I will continue to write about them (I feel it's important for me to point them out), I still have so much love and appreciation for the good guys, who need and deserve some attention and recognition, too!

I love you men!!! *smile* I think you are such beautiful creations; strong, mighty, gorgeous and cuddly! From the tops of your heads, to the soles of MOST of your feet!!! lol (y'all know some of y'all feet is way to crusty to love!) I love your many shades and flavors - chocolates, caramels, bananas, and vanillas. I love your sizes and shapes - talls, slims, buff, stocky, etc., etc. I love your curly hair, wavy hair, dark eyes, light eyes, succulent lips, goatees, mustaches, chest hair, broad shoulders, tight hips, six packs, twelve packs, two packs, no packs, sexy hands, sexy arms, hairy legs, tight asses, and....I won't even get into the groin area, because I'm not trying to make this a sexual thing....but DAMN!!!!

Y'all are gorgeous beings.

Absolutely beautiful!!!

Don't be mistaken....love and appreciation does not mean I want you, want to be with you, etc., but I like to admire, and so I will. I also can't generalize this to every single man, because some of y'all simply fuck it up with your oddities, bad behavior and bad habits (for these, read my other blogs - LOL!).

However, for every intolerable man, there are five others who've got their shit together and got their heads on straight - BOTH heads - and you are HOT! I appreciate your integrity, your wisdom and your abilities to tackle life with fists blazing. Y'all have so much to encounter in your journey of manhood - becoming independent, being a provider, being a protector, overcoming obstacles such as ridicule, stereotyping, profiling, discrimination and rejection, yet you still wake up every morning, and take on another day with pride and strength. You men with these qualities, I admire you and look up to you! I don't care how independent women are forced to become (prime example: ME), we still need you! In every way. You are the backbone of our world, and are meant to be the leaders. Just please don't forget that behind every successful man is a supportive, strong woman! I know that sounds so traditional and one-dimensional, but that's they way things were intended to be, and as a people - we've lost touch with our roles!!

Keep it up....and train your sons, nephews and friends the importance of being a good and intelligent MAN.

I think the world of you.

Thank you!!!